Johan Small is more than a memoirist. He is a survivor, advocate, and storyteller whose life has been marked by extraordinary resilience. For thirty-seven years, he endured the relentless psychological and emotional abuse of a narcissistic spouse, holding steadfast to his vows and his belief in the power of love. His experiences, while deeply personal, speak to a universal struggle faced by countless individuals trapped in toxic relationships.

With unflinching honesty, he shares his journey not to seek pity, but to offer understanding, awareness, and hope. His memoir, Thirty Seven Years of Living Hell, is both a cautionary tale and an empowering message to the human spirit’s capacity to endure, learn, and heal.

Johan’s storytelling is shaped by his rich life experiences, from his years as a devoted father and community contributor to his determination in standing up against injustice. Today, he uses his voice to shed light on the hidden realities of narcissistic abuse, helping others recognize the signs, find strength, and take steps toward freedom.

Through his work, Johan reminds us that even in the darkest chapters, the choice to reclaim one’s life is the most powerful story we can tell.